• Media Explore,  Movies and TV Reflections,  Watchlists

    How The Greatest Hits (2024) Taught Me That Music is Our Anchor To The Past.

    Ned Benson’s 2024 film The Greatest Hits is romance and sci-fi, but it also pulls you into an unexpected orbit. It’s about grief, time, memory, and an impossible urge to go back and fix what’s already happened. The movie makes you stop and contemplate on tough thoughts: Ned Benson’s 2024 film The Greatest Hits is romance and sci-fi, but it also pulls you into an unexpected orbit. It’s about grief, time, memory, and an impossible urge to go back and fix what’s already happened. The movie makes you stop and contemplate on tough thoughts:  What if we could revisit the moments that broke us? And; What if letting go means losing access to the very person…

  • Life Lately and Real Talk,  Life Musings, Thoughts, Opinions,  Mental Health Notes,  Productivity and Well-being

    Personal Branding, Perception Anxiety & The New Social Media Flu.

    What if you didn’t want to be a brand, but just a person who overthinks their captions? Ten years ago, ‘public image’ belonged to celebrities, politicians, and people whose lives depended on red carpets and press releases. These days, the spotlight has widened. The moment you open an Instagram account or post something on LinkedIn, you step into the world of personal branding — sometimes without even realizing it, without even willing to. Managing how we’re seen online is a phenomenon today, and it can feel like a full-time job. So, no wonder so many of us find it exhausting. That’s where perception anxiety starts to creep in. That lowkey panic you feel when you…

  • Book Reviews and Thoughts,  Books and Reading Life

    Book Review: Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus

    This book can surprise you with its narrative, and it can also make you clench your fists in rage at the same time. The book is Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus. It is one of those wild rides where you’re deeply invested one moment, then fuming the next, and engaging in a monologue with your wall about the deep-rooted issues in our societal structures. It’s sharp, it’s witty, and it gets under your skin — not because it messes up, but because it’s too good at showing you all the ways in which the world can be unfair to women. And yet, somehow, it’s also weirdly comforting and full of courage.…

  • Life Lately and Real Talk,  Life Musings, Thoughts, Opinions,  Mental Health Notes,  Productivity and Well-being

    Early Career Truths I Would Tell You If I Didn’t Care About Your Feelings

    Most of us step into our careers carrying a mixed bag of expectations. There’s the naive optimism we’re fed in college — that our degrees will matter, that hard work will speak for itself, that if we “just follow our passion,” the path ahead will be meaningful and rewarding. Then there’s the muffled fear that everyone else has it figured out while we’re still Googling “how to write this email in a professional way.” The truth is that early careers are messy. They’re political, unfair, and often discouraging in ways no placement talk or graduation speech will warn you about. You don’t walk into your first job as a “future leader.” You…

  • Life Lately and Real Talk

    How I Gaslit Myself in the Exam Hall

    You know that moment in an exam when your gut is quietly begging you to just stick with your answer, but your brain suddenly goes, ‘Wait, what if we just… change it for no reason?’ Yeah. That was me this week. I had the right answer. Ticked it off. Feeling good. Honestly, feeling a little smug. And then, for reasons I still can’t explain, I erased it. Because why trust your instincts when you can overthink yourself straight into a mess? Here comes the post-exam guilt. You know the kind — where you walk out and that one question just keeps playing in your head on repeat, like the world’s most annoying…

  • Book Annotations and Quotes,  Books and Reading Life

    Book Quotes to Make You Think | Man’s Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl

    When I picked up Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning, I didn’t expect it to sit with me the way it did. Some parts left me numb, others gave me hope, and a few lines stopped me mid-read just to take a breath.  Frankl’s words aren’t just lessons from history; they’re reminders that even in the most unthinkable suffering, we still have the choice to hold on to meaning. In this post, I’ve pulled together the quotes that resonated with me most while reading. These are the lines that made me reframe how I think about my own struggles. I hope they do the same for you. Survival and Its Moral Costs 1…

  • Book Annotations and Quotes,  Books and Reading Life

    Diving Deep into Sapiens: Why Technology Alone Isn’t Enough?

    Today, I read a passage from Yuval Noah Harari’s Sapiens that had my attention for a while, and might have yours too: “The Chinese and Persians did not lack technological inventions such as steam engines (which could be freely copied or bought). They lacked the values, the myths, judicial apparatus, and sociopolitical structures that took centuries to form and mature in the West and which could not be copied and internalised rapidly. France and the United States quickly followed in Britain’s footsteps because the French and Americans already shared the most important British myths and social structures. The Chinese and Persians could not catch up as quickly because they thought and organised…

  • Life Lately and Real Talk,  Life Musings, Thoughts, Opinions,  Mental Health Notes,  Productivity and Well-being

    You’re Not Tired — You’re Just Living Someone Else’s Dream

    And Why Chasing Their Version of Happy is Making You Miserable. No wonder you’re tired — you’re chasing the wrong dream. Ever catch yourself out of breath, but you’re not even sure why? You never signed up for this invisible race. There was no starting whistle. But suddenly, you’re sprinting — chasing after lifestyles, career wins, perfect photos, relationship milestones, like your whole worth depends on keeping up. From LinkedIn “thought leaders” to Instagram-perfect girlbosses to even your own friends who seem to have it all figured out — everyone’s kind of faking it. And here you are, trying to keep up in a game that doesn’t even feel like yours. You’re exhausted, but it’s not just…

  • Media Explore,  Movies and TV Reflections

    The Residence on Netflix | Twists, Characters, and Why It’s Binge-Worthy

    I had planned to watch The Residence on Netflix slowly, one episode each night for a week. Instead, I ended up spending two days in a row completely absorbed, watching the whole thing in a single stretch. I can’t say I regret it. There’s a certain quiet pleasure in letting a story pull you in and not fighting it. This isn’t really a review. It’s more like a handful of thoughts from someone who spent a weekend living inside The Residence. I’m not here to critique, just to share what stayed with me, what caught me off guard, and why the time felt well spent. First impressions The series wastes…

  • Book Reviews and Thoughts,  Books and Reading Life

    Reading Experience: Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

    Reading Man’s Search for Meaning took me through an emotional journey, beginning with numbness and heaviness, then shifting into intellectual challenge, and concluding with a feeling of motivation and renewed perspective. The Reading Journey For me, the concentration camp experiences were far more impactful than the later chapters on logotherapy and tragic optimism. The camp narrative evoked a blend of emotions within me, though at first, it almost stripped me of them. The tone Victor Frankl adopts in the first half is so detached — almost deadened — that as a reader, you mirror it. I wasn’t confused about the impact of what he was describing; I understood it. But the way he wrote about those events…